Written Aug 15, 2013 9:55am by Cindy McMurry
Strange title, I know. But it’s a good reminder to me that life keeps moving and in the midst of scary things, good and funny things can still happen. Laughter is good for us!
We have a Champion!! Bethany participated in Field Day yesterday. She won the Sack Race over “all the kids at OLOP.” She was pretty excited. I’m hoping she’ll read this, so be sure to share your congratulations with her! She also was able to eat some chocolate pudding with M&M’s hidden in it out of a diaper… she told me she ate a “dirty diaper.” Evidently, she did not win this, but I’m thinking I wouldn’t have either. 😉
Our Rotary Club is raising funds to buy shoes for orphans. One of the most distressing things I learned through this program; many children cannot go to school if they do not have shoes. I’m so encouraged by the response of our friends in our club and the community, as we make the effort to change lives. It’s an honor to be in a group of such fine people.
I’ve been able to be a part of several groups in Harlan and a support group on line. Each group is special in it’s own way. According to John there is “The Real Book Club,” “The Fake Book Club” (HA!) and “The Trauma Momma’s.” Also we have our church family, Rotary, the folks at John’s office and the folks at Red Bird. We are overwhelmed by the generosity and offers to help from all of you. We’ve laughed and giggled at all the funny things you share. You are so precious to us. Thank you for loving and supporting us and being a part of our lives.
One of my dearest friends in Harlan has gotten some difficult news about her Mom’s health, unfortunately a frightening diagnosis. My brother shared with me that a friend of theirs has gotten a cancer diagnosis. Please pray for them!
There are so many things about cancer that is difficult to cope with. First there is shock, then fear, then denial, then tests and treatments that are often hurry up and wait, then talking to family and friends, emotional and spiritual challenges… It’s not easy to combat all of this. We all need the support of our family, friends and community and yet the offers of help are often overwhelming. We also struggle to know how to ask for help or even what to ask for… Just yesterday we were the one’s helping others. How do we switch so quickly? How do we keep things from falling through the cracks (like paying bills etc)? Please have patience with us. Sometimes we will forget important things. Sometimes we will say things that seem selfish. Sometimes we will forget to call or write to say Thank you. Sometimes it takes all of our energy just to be… just to put one foot in front of another.
In Sweet Alex’s words “Oh (Coco)nuts!” It’s hard having cancer.
We do need you. Keep making us smile. Keep making us laugh. Remind us that you love us and know that we love you too! Pray for us and for others who are facing difficult times.
You are precious to us.
We love you,
Cindy and John
“A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.” Proverbs 17:22